Are You Part of the One Time Club?

Good morning Grinder,

Have you ever wondered what separates high achievers from the rest of the crowd? Why some people consistently rise to the occasion, no matter the circumstances, while others hesitate, procrastinate, or wait to be asked multiple times?

Imagine this: Your manager offers you a chance to lead a high-profile project. A friend asks you for a favor that could change their life. An opportunity to pursue your dream career suddenly appears.

How do you respond?

Do you step up and say, “Yes, I’m in!” without hesitation? Or do you wait—overthinking, doubting, or hoping someone else takes the lead?

If you’re part of the "One Time Club," your answer is simple: You show up the first time.

The "One Time Club" isn't an exclusive organization. It’s a mindset. A way of living where you commit to stepping up when opportunity knocks—not the second, third, or fourth time—but the very first time.

Let’s dive into what this means, why it matters, and how you can adopt this transformative mindset to elevate every area of your life.

What Is the One Time Club?

The "One Time Club" is a concept popularized by entrepreneur Patrick Bet-David. It’s rooted in the idea that success doesn’t wait for you to be ready—it rewards those who take action immediately.

The rules are simple: When you’re asked once, you deliver.

This means:

• You don’t need multiple reminders to get things done.

• You don't hesitate when opportunities arise.

• You don’t wait for perfect conditions to take action.

Instead, you embrace challenges, trust your instincts, and act decisively.

Think about how often people miss out on incredible opportunities because they hesitated. Maybe they weren’t prepared. Maybe they doubted themselves. Maybe they thought there’d be another chance later.

But here’s the truth: Sometimes, there is no later.

Why Being Part of the One Time Club Matters

Opportunities Are Fleeting
Life is full of windows of opportunity, but they don’t stay open forever. The "One Time Club" mindset ensures you don’t let these chances pass you by. It trains you to say “yes” and figure out the details later.

It Builds Trust and Reliability
When people know you’ll deliver the first time they ask, they’ll trust you more. Whether it’s in your career, personal relationships, or social circles, being dependable is a rare and invaluable quality.

Confidence Comes from Action
Hesitation breeds doubt, but action builds confidence. Each time you step up immediately, you reinforce your belief in yourself. Over time, this creates a feedback loop of self-assurance and competence.

It Sets You Apart
Most people wait to be asked again or need constant motivation to act. By being part of the "One Time Club," you stand out as a proactive, driven individual who doesn’t need hand-holding.

How to Cultivate the One Time Club Mindset

Start with Self-Preparation
Success favors the prepared. If you want to be ready to say “yes” when asked, invest in yourself daily. This includes:

Learning new skills relevant to your field or passions.

Staying physically and mentally sharp through regular exercise and mindfulness.

Cultivating a positive mindset by surrounding yourself with inspiring people and ideas.

When you’re consistently preparing yourself, you’ll be ready to act when the moment arrives.

Overcome the Fear of Failure
One of the biggest reasons people hesitate is fear—fear of failing, looking foolish, or not being good enough. But here’s the thing: Action beats fear every time.

• Focus on progress, not perfection.

• Embrace failure as a stepping stone to growth.

• Remember, every expert was once a beginner.

Develop a Bias for Action
Train yourself to act quickly. This doesn’t mean being reckless; it means trusting your gut and taking the first step, even when things aren’t perfectly clear.

• Practice saying “yes” to small tasks immediately.

• Limit overthinking by setting a decision-making deadline (e.g., 5 minutes for minor decisions).

• Adopt the mantra: “Done is better than perfect.”

Learn to Trust Yourself
Being part of the "One Time Club" requires self-belief. If you don’t trust yourself, you’ll hesitate. Build this trust by keeping promises to yourself.

• Start small: Commit to waking up earlier, completing a daily workout, or finishing a book.

• Each promise you keep adds to your internal bank of confidence.

Real-Life Examples of the One Time Club in Action

Steve Jobs and the Launch of the iPhone
When Apple engineers pitched the idea of a revolutionary touchscreen phone, Steve Jobs could have waited to test the market or perfect the design further. Instead, he acted immediately, championing the project and ensuring it reached the market quickly. The launch of the iPhone in 2007 changed the course of technology forever. Jobs’s ability to act decisively and confidently on groundbreaking ideas was a hallmark of his success.\

Oprah Winfrey and Her First Talk Show Offer
Oprah Winfrey was a news anchor when she was offered the chance to host a struggling morning talk show called AM Chicago. Despite having no experience in that format, she seized the opportunity and transformed it into The Oprah Winfrey Show, which became a global phenomenon. Oprah didn’t hesitate or demand guarantees; she acted on the belief that she could bring value to the show from day one.

Howard Schultz and the Starbucks Vision
When Howard Schultz first encountered Starbucks, it was a small coffee bean retailer. Schultz saw the potential for a coffee shop experience modeled after European espresso bars and pitched his idea to the owners. When they declined, he didn’t hesitate—he left the company, raised funds, and returned to acquire Starbucks. His quick decision-making and conviction turned Starbucks into a global brand.

The Ripple Effect of Saying Yes

Saying yes once can lead to a chain reaction of opportunities. When you deliver, people talk. They recommend you, trust you, and include you in bigger decisions.

This ripple effect extends beyond your professional life. It impacts your personal growth, relationships, and self-esteem. By consistently stepping up, you create a life filled with purpose and possibility.

Are You Ready to Join?

The One Time Club isn’t reserved for the famous or ultra-successful. It’s for anyone willing to seize opportunities, act decisively, and deliver with excellence.

Next time opportunity knocks, don’t hesitate. Say yes, commit fully, and prove yourself the first time. Join the ranks of those who take action, embrace growth, and transform their lives—one decision at a time.

So, what will you do when the moment comes? Are you ready to be part of the One Time Club?

Warm regards,

N. Amadeus